1. Controversy as a Catalyst
Rule #1 of the internet: If it makes people mad, it makes people talk.
At the time, there were already a bunch of “lazy girl” trends on TikTok. Lazy Girl dinners. Lazy Girl workouts. Lazy Girl morning routines. Most of them were aesthetic and light. I kept seeing content like that and thought, “We’re all working remote jobs. Let’s talk about that.”
So I said it: Lazy Girl Jobs.
I knew the phrase would be provocative. If you weren’t familiar with how these trends worked, it could sound like I was calling women lazy.
But, what I meant was something else entirely. I was talking about jobs that offer more balance. More freedom. A version of work that doesn’t run you into the ground.
It was also a way to split the conversation. I’ve always believed that the fastest path to attention is when some people love what you’re saying and others strongly disagree. That dynamic helps ideas move. And, I knew I could handle the deeper conversations that came out of it.
I saw it happen quickly. Within a few days, The Young Turks covered the post on air. Cent Uygur, the CEO of The Young Turks pointed into the camera and went off on the idea. Then, other outlets followed — Sky News, BBC, Fox, MSNBC.
Once that wave started, it didn’t stop. And I realized I had tapped into something a lot of people were already feeling — they just needed the words to name it.



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